From my recent photo shoot with Mike Jones. All Rights Reserved.
Welcome to my diary, please share your thoughts with me. My name is Geneva Hersom AKA Surfrbelle or Surfer Girl. I live in the Sanford/Springvale area in Maine. I'm a mom, martial artist, surfer, model sometimes and cosmetologist. I've been through hell, I've suffered a lot, I've been betrayed in the worst possible way, been hurt beyond anything that words can express and evil deeds got in the way of the man who said he loved me so much, that I was his soul mate, the love of his life and his future wife: Bob McGrath. I still can't believe that he was capable of doing the things he did to me. He has hurt me deeply and has been extremely unfair, EVIL and cruel to me. I write here to let my feelings out and to write about my daily life as a way of sharing it with my friends. I have suffered tremendous losses including a miscarriage. This was Bob's and my baby. I have a broken heart and I'm deeply, terribly hurt and grieving so much for the loss of our baby. What I've gone through and what was done to me is awful. I'm an honest person; integrity, kindness and truth are the core of who I am. I love music, it's a very important part of my life as well as it relates to emotions and feelings.
For more about me, click on MY PROFILE link to your left. The story of how Bob and I met is in my archives here in one entry as well as my webpage in my About Geneva section. I have written about what he put me through as well.
The entries have numbers when you are viewing my diary in the View my friends' messages mode, so just click on View my diary on your left to go back and read the latest entry. This intro is also in my Diary's profile so to read it or if you can't see it just click HERE My Diary(If YOU WANT TO READ IT) to VIEW my writings.
Yes, that's me in the photos, do not copy them without my permission. Copyright Tom Couture, EJ, Mike Jones and Geneva.
The scars of emotional abuse are worse than those of physical abuse, for physical abuse fades but emotional abuse has a more lasting effect.
Sympathy for the suffering of others and the desire to free them from it =compassion --Dalai Lama
I believe in Karma and those who have harmed me and want to continue to harm me, someday will find out what it's like to be on the other end of bad deeds. What goes around comes around.
This is the trailer for the upcoming indie movie Bullet 17 where I played a KGB agent. I'm the one in the Black Hummer with the gun being really bad heh heh.
Bravenet Community Blog:
Good morning, Geneva. Thanks so much for your tag. I've just finished posting the link to your journal; I hope it helps.
Bravenet Community Blog:
Hi Geneva. I'm doing some blog-surfing and thought I'd drop in and check out your journal. It looks great, and I've added to my blog list for my next update. On a personal note, I've been where you are, and I'm so sorry you're going through such awful pain. I'll be back again; I've subscribed to your journal...
mommyto2:
Great blog. Stay strong. Trust your instincs. I look forward to reading more.
mandi791:
Hey girl... I ve never been here before! Cool place... Hope things get better for you!
Carol:
Wow! I am so sorry for your losses. I know that somehow, someway, God will take what was intended for evil and use it for good. How? Only He knows. Please, stop by my journal for encouragment. I will be praying for you.
Geneva Hersom AKA Surfrbelle
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My nicknames are Surfrbelle or Surfer Girl I'm a mom, martial artist, surfer, model, cosmetologist. I live in the Sanford/Springvale area in Maine. I've gone through hell. I had a miscarriage, it was Robert (Bob) McGrath's and mine and I've gone thru hell because of him and what he did to me was downright EVIL. I miss his daughter Emily whom I love as my own. I've endured a lot, been the target of evilness and injustice and ill treatment without deserving it. I've been betrayed by the person I trusted the most. How can the person that said you were the love of his life and loved you so much, believed that we were soul mates and that we were together in another lifetime, hurt me so viciously and cruelly without a real reason and go from such a beautiful love story to all the nightmare it has become? I grieve for our baby's loss every day. The story of how we came across into each others' lives is in my webpage, in the About Geneva section. My webpage is linked here as well as my DIARY. This is just my profile, to read my diary, click on the LINK that says to READ my Diary above to the left.
I'm bilingual, Spanish is my first language and I'm fluent in English too. I also understand Italian and Portuguese, just need to improve my conversation skills.